DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I met a guy on Bumble. Really great guy, he’s decent, soft spoken, loving and caring. We are dating for almost a month now. He lives in another city so we are not able to meet much... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I recently hit 30, and am in the middle of trying to turn my life around after a pretty rough decade. While going into the details wouldn’t be appropriate (or time efficient), the ... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I will try to keep this as brief as I can. There’s a quite cute blonde lass who works at a McDonald’s in Stirling, Scotland that I frequent and since she caught my eye, I said to h... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I matched with this girl exactly three months ago on NYE and we started off with great chemistry. We felt an intense connection on multiple fronts. One month later I asked her to b... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I think I have a problem and I don’t know if it’s one you’ve handled before. I (non-binary, femme-presenting, 27) went to a local kink event with my best friend (m/29) with benefit... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: For the last 2+ years, I’ve(32M) taken a lot of steps to try and improve my social life. During that time, I moved to a city that is supposed to have a lot more people my age than ... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: As someone who has observed the social landscape evolve over the years, I find myself grappling with the shifting dynamics, particularly with the emergence of platforms like Tinder... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Before I being this long paragraph of ranting like George Carlin, there are a couple things I’d like to bring up. One is that I’m on a path in pursuing a career through college and... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I have heard of these women who get to be the friend. I am never the friend.I’d like to be the friend. What are some traits of the “friend?”... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I (m/26, gay, in a queer-friendly major metropolitan city) have literally just left my date’s apartment and I don’t know what to do.... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m in a weird spot right now. Currently I’m in a healthy and loving relationship and we’ve been together for a year. Recently I’ve been thinking I have feelings for a close friend... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I guess I need help in terms of making sense of a bad run. I’ve had a few first dates over the last 6 months and none of them have really gone the way I’ve wanted them to, some of ... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I (female, American, lives in the US) have developed a flirty friendship with a guy (German, lives in Germany), whom I met at a conference about a year ago, when neither of us were... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: My (23F) boyfriend (26) is a streamer on YouTube. He has almost 10k followers, and when he streams people love him. But sometimes I get jealous because even though I join his strea... more